We all know how babies are made (or at least if you have a baby of your own already, then you should know how they are made). However, so many young parents (mothers in particular) naturally lessen how often they partake in such bedroom activities as soon as they have a baby to raise. And that is something that they should not do!
It is easy to understand the reasoning and logic behind such a lifestyle change. Given how physically exhausting sex can be, it makes sense that parents who are already exhausted as a result of raising their children may not have the energy or willpower to power through sex like they used to in the past.
But it is important to remember that sex is not just an important part of life, but an extremely fun and exciting part of it as well. No matter how tired you may be due to raising a child, you cannot neglect the things in life that make you truly happy. And for most people, sex just happens to be one of those things.
Now assuming you are still with your partner, then obviously you should make time as a couple to get intimate with one another, just like you used to before your child came into this world. If you are not having sex quite as often as you used to due to the time spent raising your child, then you will just need to find time. If you need to, employ a babysitter, or even a family or friend to help watch your kids while you get intimate with your partner. You can even use that added time to make an entire night of it, starting with a romantic date and ending in the bedroom for the final act.
If you aren’t having sex simply due to a lack of interest, do not worry, as this isn’t completely uncommon. All you need to do in this case is to spice things up and re-introduce the spark in your sex lives. You can try different positions with your partner as a start, or even try experimenting with squirting for couples who are particularly interested in achieving new levels of pleasure. Whatever you decide to do, just have fun with it and remember that you are doing this because sex is a fun activity and you want to get back to having fun with it like you used to in the past.
Sex is a highly popular activity for people of just about all ages and is something that should not be inhibited by the duties associated with raising children. So even if your plate seems completely and constantly full raising your precious bundle of joy, do not let that stop you and your partner from living out a full sex life. It is definitely something that you (and your body in particular) will appreciate as soon as you make it a staple of your life again.